The RAC Saddle Club this week hosted six inspiring women, all partners of serving members of the Armed Forces, for a transformative two-day equestrian camp. The experience was organised by Forces Wives Challenge, a remarkable initiative that unites and empowers women who are married to or partnered with individuals in the military – whether serving or veterans.
The RAC Saddle Club was chosen for its impressive facilities and its ability to cater to riders of all levels and disciplines. From flat work to hacking and jumping, the club’s horses are not just “plodders.” These well-trained horses, full of character, offer a dynamic riding experience, ensuring participants are both challenged and supported, regardless of their experience level.
“Our horses are amazing — each one is well-trained and full of personality,” said Steph, yard manager. “They cater to all levels, from beginners to advanced riders, and they’re versatile across all disciplines. They don’t just plod along; they’re engaging and ready for anything, which makes for a truly unique experience. On this camp we had one lady in a wheelchair, yet we still had a suitable horse that was safe but not dull to ride.”
But this camp wasn’t just about horseback riding. It was aimed at building connections, pushing personal boundaries, and offering a supportive community where women can grow through shared adventure.
The six ladies, aged 29 to 51, come from various locations across the UK, including Dorset, Wiltshire, and the East Midlands. Five are married to serving army personnel, and one is married to a member of the Navy.
Formed in 2019, the Forces Wives Challenge (FWC) is a social enterprise with a powerful mission – to give military spouses the opportunity to take part in exciting challenges and connect with others who understand the unique struggles and triumphs of life as a military partner. For these women, who often experience frequent relocations and extended separations from their spouses, the chance to take part in a supportive community event is truly invaluable.
The Reality of Military Life: Frequent Moves and Long Separations
For military wives, the lifestyle can be both rewarding and challenging. Moving every 2 to 4 years is a frequent reality for many, with spouses regularly deployed for months at a time. As Harad, one of the participants, explained, “I don’t live on a base, so I don’t often meet other military wives who understand what it’s like. But coming here, I’ve found a sense of community. It’s so comforting to meet women who I”ve never met before but who truly understand military life.”
Anna, the only participant married to someone in the Navy, shared a different perspective: “In the Navy, we don’t live on large bases, so there’s a bit more stability. I’ve lived in Plymouth for 20 years, so my experience is a bit different. I don’t typically see my partner for more than 10 weeks at a time. But for many of the women here, they go through much longer separations, sometimes 3 to 9 months. It’s interesting to hear their stories and realise just how different our lives are depending on the branch of the military our husbands serve in.”
These constant moves and long deployments can take a toll, but for many of the women, events like the equestrian camp are a chance to reconnect with themselves and build relationships with others who understand their unique challenges.
Steph saysRAC Saddle Club’s equestrian camp is the first of its kind for the Forces Wives Challenge, and won’t be the last! “it’s proving to be an exciting and transformative experience.”
From dressage to jumping, hacking, and cross-country riding, the women are pushing their limits in ways they never expected. Says Anja. “Our husbands get these types of adventures all the time, but it’s brilliant to have our own!”
Steph stresses that these activities are more than just fun – they are designed to stretch participants both mentally and physically.
“We don’t just offer spa days; we offer real challenges that help women build confidence, connect, and support each other.”
The participants were also impressed by the RAC Saddle Club, a charity based in Bovington, Dorset. “The opportunity to meet other military wives and connect over something as wonderful as horses has been incredible,” said Rebecca, another participant. “Everyone is so friendly, and it’s amazing to be able to ride some great horses and use these fantastic facilities from the Club House to the many arenas.”
A Growing Community
Steph explains that the Forces Wives Challenge is a rapidly expanding social enterprise, with a membership of over 2,000 women and a growing list of adventures and challenges both in the UK and abroad. Last year alone, the organisation hosted 20 challenges, some abroad in countries such as Sweden, and this year they have 30 scheduled.
Steph, who has been in a wheelchair since 2019 due to a neurological condition, yet enjoys team chasing, is an inspiring figure.
Her story has shown women with disabilities that they, too, can participate in these challenges. “I’m proud to show what’s possible, no matter the obstacles. Last year, we had women with disabilities take part in activities like sailing, open-water swimming, and even the Three Peaks Challenge. It’s amazing to see people reach out and ask what they can do – and it’s even more amazing to watch them achieve things they never thought possible.”
Advice for Other Military Wives
For any military wives considering joining a Forces Wives Challenge event, the advice is clear: “Don’t hold back. Do it. You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain,” said one participant. “You’ll meet so many incredible women, and you’ll gain experiences you never expected.” Steph adds, “We understand how nerve-wracking it can be to join something new. But once you step through that door, you’ve already achieved something. You’ve already taken that first step, and the rest will follow.”
If you want more information about hosting an event at The RAC Saddle Club or want to join an adventure run by the Forces Wives Challenge please contact Steph Quintrell at info@forceswiveschallenge.org or visit racsaddleclub.co.uk www.forceswiveschallenge.org